Pet Peeves

1. The assumption that monogamy is superior to polyamory
2. The assumption that polyamory is superior to monogamy
3. Defensive prescriptions of one or the other for other people's relationships

4. That gentrification is promoted as an unequivocal good
5. That gentrification is lambasted as an unequivocal evil

6. Accepting everything at face value
7. Problematising everything at face value

8. Lists of pet peeves... how misanthropic
9. People who uphold equanimity as a goal, leaving no room in a life of spirituality for moments of indignant crankiness

Identity Politic wishlist

1. Enough critical mass of queer Buddhists of colour to organise for a regular meditation sitting group in Sydney

2. Working with a group of people who were raised (upper-)middle class on engaging and challenging class privilege (rather than just paternalistic work on poverty)

3. Mix-gender queer dubstep party

4. Intellectual discussion group on sexual ethics with other young gay men